Last month was my birthday. and now I am 18 years means signifying my transition into adulthood. Most of these birthdays are always memorable because we enter a new stage of life. people celebrate their eighteenth birthday with great enthusiasm with fanfare.

 Today I told you how my eighteenth birthday was memorable for me. Why did I never forget my this birthday? first I would like to tell you about my old birthdays. I got many wishes on my old birthdays or my past birthdays, WhatsApp was full of my photos and wishes and in the evening the celebration started. but my very memorable or you can say it is memorable because I never got that joy on my birthday after that and that was my fourteenth birthday. on my 14th birthday.

 I was in class seventh. a question occurs in your mind why I am saying it memorable because it is my last birthday when our friends remember our birthday two months ago and also tries that you not to forget your birthday means they remind me four to five times a day that my birthday comes and they want extra chocolates. 

And this is also my last birthday for which I have been waiting for one year. on my birthday day, I never wear school dress except in class eighth. this is the only day where I have no tension of homework or notebooks because no one can beat me or scold me today. After all, today is my birthday. today all of the class treats me like a king or like a guest not for giving me respect but for extra chocolates. 

The monitor of the class does not write my name on the blackboard but he asks for chocolates in exchange. because I am not a frontbencher I don't have a bond of friendship with a monitor so I refuse him for chocolates because I know nobody can beat me after all, today is my birthday. today the classmates who never talk with me or with my friends also try to emerge in our group except for some students.

 Now when my unfavourite teacher or subject period comes I stand and ask for permission to distribute chocolates, i do not ask for permission but I tell him/her that I am going. I know the teacher can't refuse me because today is my birthday but some teachers do not permit after some requests they give permission.

 The authority of the school made rules that no one goes for the distribution of chocolates in the middle of the period, they told that students only distribute chocolates at lunchtime but no one follows it. I spent seven years in the same school but only one time did I follow this rule.

 Mostly two friends can come with me for the distribution of chocolates but choosing that friend is very difficult. if I choose the first one so second one feels bad. but mostly my friends was shy so they did not come by their own will.

 I think in every school some teachers took more than 20 or 25 chocolates. my school also has that type of teacher so I gave him chocolates at the last. some teachers took only one or two chocolates they were mostly senior teachers or teachers who were not friendly with me. when I enter another class some classmates, juniors or seniors start asking for the chocolates.

 When lunch starts I most of the time do not eat my lunch because everyone wants to eat or they eat my lunch. mostly I purchase "chole bhaturey" on my birthday. in the evening I went to a restaurant with my family for dinner and also cut the cake there.

 When I entered class 9th I saw no one celebrated birthdays like old days. students distribute chocolates in the classroom only or they give chocolates only to the teacher who comes into the classroom some of not celebrate their birthdays in school. but here mostly all celebrate their birthdays in restaurants with their coaching friends or with their close friends only. As I have told you my classmates or my all friends became seniors so one or two friends invited me. 

When my birthday comes I also gone school in uniform but carry a box of chocolates with us. I distribute chocolates on the bus or in class or to teachers who come to my class.

 Now a new trend come in which the birthday boy takes screenshots of wishes and status and takes these photos in their own WhatsApp status or on Instagram stories. You can guess how important this was from the fact that people used to call and ask me to post the story. And this trend is still going on.

 I also started to follow that trend and I uploaded more than fifty pics on my status and the evening I celebrated my birthday in a restaurant. next year my birthday occurred between the board exams so no one asked me for a party and I uploaded screenshots of my wishes on WhatsApp.

 Now I am in class twelfth means last year when my birthday came I was in class 11 and school was closed on my birthday because this year the center came to my school for the board examination. this was my eighteenth birthday I slept at 1 a.m. because I was waiting for wishes at midnight but not even a single call or message came. only a single status was uploaded by my aunt. I did not feel good at that time. when I woke up in the morning my father wished me and my mother started scolding me, yes she had forgotten my birthday. my mother and my sister wish me at 11 a.m. when my some relatives call to come. I have more than ten cousins but only two cousins wish me. my three friends wish me on that day or my class teacher with me in the evening.

 Do you know why this happened?

 I did not upload the status of the screenshots on that day. stream change is also a big cause or I also stop taking coaching from class eleventh. Even those who used to be my best friends did not wish me a happy birthday. You might be thinking that people forget my birthday because of their busyness. What is the harm in this? I also asked myself the same question and in response my mind asked, do you remember his birthday? the answer was yes.

 After telling you all this, I don't want to seek your sympathy. Nor does it mean that I am very sad, rather I am very happy. I just want to tell you that you cannot be special to everyone in life. and it is not that someone does not remember your birthday, you are not special to him, you just need to know the skill of reading a person to know who is yours and who is not.

Thank you